Are You The Woman That Men Adore?
Sunday, November 29, 2009
Most people would think that this topic is really easy because all men love beautiful women. All you need to do is make yourself beautiful and a long queue of men would present themselves at your door. That may be true if you are really gorgeous but would these men take you home to their parents?
Would any one seriously adore you as a person of value? What are some of the attributes in a woman that men adore?
Beyond A Beautiful Face
In ancient Greece, the unfaithful Helen of Troy was known as the face that launched a thousand ships. Even though all men like beautiful women, they do not need a Helen of Troy as a wife. Therefore, you do not need to have exceptional beauty to attract your man. However, you do need to ‘look good’. The truth is no matter how ‘common’ a woman might look, she can still ‘look good’. Looking good does not mean that you have to weigh 80 pounds and look like a catwalk model.
Most men would find a woman attractive if she generally looks healthy, with a nice face, clear skin and well groomed hair. Her general appearance is tidy; her teeth are clean, no bad breath, no foul body odor or over-powering perfume smell. Even though men would first evaluate you by your external appearance, ultimately it would still be your character and personality that really captivate and keep your man.
Celebrate Your Femininity
Men are generally attracted to women who exude feminine gentleness and sweet softness. Subconsciously, men consider the ‘feminine’ woman to possess the right qualities in becoming a wife and mother of their children. Most men do not want to marry a ‘masculine’ woman because they simply do not want to marry another ‘man’. Therefore, coarse behavior such as cursing and swearing may make you ‘one of the guys’ but it seldom enhances your chances of becoming a man’s life partner.
Your femininity will awake the male’s natural instinct to look after, defend and protect you. This is the beauty of male-female interdependent relationship. Many women throw away this strong bond of interdependence, thinking that this is an expression of weakness.
Meekness is not weakness but strength. A man finds comfort in the fact that his woman needs him as much as he needs his woman. A ‘feminine’ woman brings great gratification to her man because she gives him the privilege of loving, caring and cherishing her. Just remember that men like to feel needed too. Celebrate your femininity and your man will never let you go!
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